Is this just hormones>???

[popsickle]

Ive been with my boyfriend since early december last year, Ive fallen pregnant. He said he couldnt be happier and to be fair, he is the nicest, boyfriend ive ever had and to be honest i think he could do better than me but he says hes spot on happy. Im forever worrying about the bad things that could happen, i.e, he leaves, i miscarry, he gets sick of my mood swings. I can't help thinking he's just staying with me until the baby arrives so he makes sure i have it, because ive been paranoid in the past regarding him texting somebody, but it was right at the beginning, in january. i got over that , well thought i did, but its now back to haunt me in my own head.
I just keep goin mental and saying i want a week off, but he's even cried saying he wants me and this baby and its the most important thing in the world to him.
I wrote a post a while ago regarding a girl called kirsty who was saying she had slept with him, but he strongly denied it. to fully inderstand u would probably have to read that, but we werent together anyway, but she is still saying its true and he's lying, its just messing my head up.....
is it hormones or am i losing the plot?? x x x

[unhappychick]

It sounds like you have trust issues, and I think I know where it stems from...you say hes the nicest boyfriend youve ever had and that you think he could do better, theres the problem, you have the insecurity issues about yourself, I know cos I do it myself....you have to look at it like this, he is with you, its you he comes home to every night and he sounds like he will be good father material....when you told him you wanted a break for a week and he cried, it gives you control back if you know what I mean, I dont think you really meant it? It sounds like you have a good man, and I wouldnt take any notice of this other woman, sounds to me like shes trying to cause trouble...ask yourself this, if you knew a fella was with a woman and she was expecting, would you stick your nose in making accusations, cos I know I wouldnt, in my opinion shes a troublemaker, the best thing to do, is change your phone numbers, that way you wont have this intrusion! Like I said before it sounds like you have a good man, relax and try to enjoy the relationship rather than question everything about it! -x-

[popsickle]

thanks for that, ur good.
feelin a bit better just a bit of a pesimist at the mo....
take care x x

[unhappychick]

No problem! Glad to be of some help! Shame I dont take some of my own advice lol.....as I said, im exactly the same as you! Well I hope you can learn to enjoy the relationship and hope all goes well with the baby! good luck and my best wishes to the both of you! or should I say the 3 of you! -x-