In relationship with married man!!!!!!!!

[lerler]

Hi all,need some advice.I've been with him for three years now.He's still with wife,she kind of like has a clue,but he just keeps fobbing her off.He tells me he needs to say because of his debts etc,we have a great time and love each other alot.We've tried the not seeing each other for a couple of mths,but where like a boomerang...we just keep getting together.What should one do...?

[B00]

tasty- extremely big of you to apologise. Fair play to you. Glad that things did sort themselves out for you and your hubby.

fingers crossed that lerler sees sense and finds someone who loves her and only her one day.

[MrLee-Gend]

Just a personal opinion but i always think the other woman is a b1tch and a homewrecker.There are plenty single men but i think they enjoy taking whats not theirs.Infact i doubt b1tch is a strong enough word.But thats my opinion.

nytol

[lerler]

TASTYmorsal:thanks for the apology.But even though you say;that you were drunk,i'm not too convinced.
You seemed to know what you were saying.
If you and your husband are really over it and like to make jokes about his silly little mistake,then why were you so venomos(not too sure of spelling)last night?If you'd really gotton over it then i'm sure you wouldn't have took it all out on me.The fact you say;'we' can laugh about it and about the other woman,just doesn't wash with me.Can you laugh about 'him' having the affair-when your together and how do you know you can really trust him again?

[Ice.Maiden]

Time heals lerler - and as you can see, most married men stay with their partners because they know where they're better off, but sometimes...occasionally....if two people are really meant for each other, it DOES work out.

[cazzz1975]

bit rich of you to question tastymorsels situation lerler, you will never understand what it is like unless you are in that situation yourself, she is entitled to be venomous, your manner suggests that you are quite young and immature.

remember you are the one who is being strung along...