For The Ladies

[charlotte247]

How Would You React If Your Bf Of A Few Months Was Going To A Strip Club For His Mates Stag Do? Scared Or Not? Much Appreciated xx

[China Doll]

Roll my eyes and laugh probably.

The only thing I'd be scared of is whether he took change out of the G-String or not, I hear it's not the done thing.

[mrs_overall]

I Would Not Be Scared About It Because You Have To Have Trust In A Relationship.

[joggerjayne]

That's what blokes do, and it shows he's normal.

Would you turn down a girls night out to see male strippers?

[Sasha13]

LOL at China Doll!

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. Would far rather my b/f went to a strip club where the women a. do it for a living, b. are probably thinking about what they're going to cook for tea, and c. abide by 'look but don't touch' rules, than he went out to our local club which is full of sl**pers that would sh*g a guy as soon as look at him.

[cazzz1975]

its a stag do, its not like he is compulsively addicted to the place, I would be okay about it!

[mangosam]

Umm I know this is for the Ladies but You might aswell have a guys opinion on it So here I am. Yeah you have to have trust in a relationship and if you are concerned talk it over with him and tell him your concerns. I personaly wouldn't put my partner in the position of having to come online to ask some completely lovely strangers for advice. But maybe your guy isn't that in tune with your feelings. And If you do have trust issues, do things which you think would build trust in your relationship.
Hope this helps XxX

[alijangra]

Whilst I wouldnt be over the moon at the thought, I am secure enough within myself not to worry about something like that. On saying that, I certainly wouldnt put up with it happening on a regular basis but for birthdays, stag do's etc then I think its ok and pretty normal behaviour really.

[Velvetee]

It wouldn't bother me. Boy's will be boys at times and it will all be titilating for these lads. The girls are there to work and earn money and will take little genuine interest in most men who go to these places.

I think you'd need to worry more if he was going to a regular nightclub, with regular girls there.

[JK04]

I took my girlfriend to a strip club because she was curious about it, I paid for a private dance for her and she loved it, she had a great time. So maybe you should go to one and you'l see for yourself its not such a bad place and you dont have anything to worry about. I see women there all the time (women who are'nt strippers i mean)

[andrea81]

Men look at these things as a laugh! It's just a bit of male bonding fun! I wouldn't worry about it!

Especially a stag!

[cazzie15]

My partner doesn't particularly like going to strip clubs for stags, but feels under pressure from his mates to go - so I don't think anything for you to worry about.

[jess17]

I think you should look at it this way; what would you say if she was going to a hen night and was seeing a male stripper?! You should see it the same way if you feel the same way about eachother! Your're having a laugh with your mates - have fun! xx

[Booldawg]

make sure you give him a full servicing a few hours before going out; tbh thats the best advice I can give.

[Greedyfly]

Id ask to go along cos it sounds like fun lol

Its a strip club, whats he going to do that he couldnt do any other time? Jts tell him to have a good time and not worry about it and if you are worried then there obviously isnt anough trust there.

[MiniN]

talk to him charlotte if it is bothering you. you can't get upset if he goes if you don't tell him how your feeling.

if it was my bf i wouldn't be thinking its brilliant. but he's going to go look at a load of boobs at the end of the day that is all he is seeing (and a bit more flesh). nothing to worry about really. you can see more on channel 4 after 9pm.

if you went to see a male stripper you wouldn't compare them to your bf or run away with the stripper.

its only one night. go out on the same night with some friends and have some fun and forget what your bf is doing and have a better time than him.