Some people (like me for instance, although I am modest of course) just exude presence and emit pheromones into the stratosphere that just make people want get closer to them and do the horizontal lambada - or at least think about it.
Fortunately having blue eyes, a sense of humour, a full head of hair, the capacity to laugh at myself, charisma, a smile, impeccable style, rapport with others are what attracted my wife. She wasn't that fussed about the whanger. Fortunately.