To anyone that is interested!

[topogigo]

Some nice people out there- lakitu, 888sally888 etc. Wished me well with my trip to the states to meet my internet girlfriend, for the first time may i add. Well, it went so well i can't believe it. Because we had been seeing each other on the web cam for months, it was just as though we had met many times. We did not have one single awkward moment, it was really nice. We went to concerts, lots of days out, all in the Michigan sun. Her friends had parties for me, it was all very surprising but extremely comfortable. The upshot is, her friend, who lives on a beautiful lake, is a minister and she is going to marry us on the lake next summer. I know it sounds very soon, but we are both 50 and have nothing to lose. It broke my heart coming back, so i am going for 3 weeks again in September. Thanks for all your good wishes. C.

[topogigo]

Yes jugsy,
M. had a hysterectomy in January, she used her accumulated sick time and her annual leave to recover, but still had to go back to work too soon. At least her treatment was free, her job covered that. They don't like the nhs system, so they told me, because why should they pay for someone elses care when they are well themselves. Although i did read that 16 million children in the US have no health care at all, none, so they should think on i say.

[888sally888]

I think you should invite us all to the wedding to be bridesmaids/pageboys!!

PS I look good in blue!!

[topogigo]

Sally, if you want to come, you are welcome, should be a nice day on the lake, in the sunshine next summer. As soon as i saw the garden running down to the water i thought this will be very nice.

[SKA]

oh yeah I rememeber your suger daddy post (that was you wasn't it?)
anyway I'm glad things worked out for you!!

Congratulations on your future marriage

I wish I could find a special someone now!!

[888sally888]

No - they are the same age - no sugar daddy here!!

[topogigo]

Ok , i will be honest. My sugar daddy post was me trying to be funny, i suppose i was just trying to distract myself, a bit of nerves i think, and just to talk about the whole thing with someone. I need not have worried though.
If anything she is older than me anyway, i am the toyboy.

[SKA]

aww thats so cute finding someone new at 50 topogigo well done hope things go well fro you!!
So are you going to move to the states?

[topogigo]

I will be moving there as soon as i have shut shop over here. It won't be soon enough. Ta

[karmgirl]

That's a lovely happy ending story