Is it ok to find someone else attractive?

[Kimbles20]

Hi, a friend and I have been debating. If you are with someone and you are happy with them and love them - is it still ok to have a bit of a crush on someone else? we're not talking wanting to go out with the person, just finding them attractive and fancying them a bit, maybe a little fantasising about them and enjoying spending time with them. What do you think?

[madsteve]

You can admire the goods, but you don't have to try them out.

The brain is the most inspiring organ in the body, without it a sex life would be very dull, and the more you use it the better it gets. ;-)