f*cking women!!!!!!!!!

[angryman2008]

im at my witts end, met a girl few weeks ago and she was saying how much she fancied me etc, and was saying things like she hopes my intentions are good etc. anyway she was saying lads mess her about and shes sick of itl........anyway its now turned sour as she started to get a bighead and had the gall to say she just wanted sex but didnt think i could leave it at that as id taken it quite seriously......anyway shes now just ignoring me and even called me a loser. what is it with women these days....i thought when i got past 20 they would be more rational, theres a lot of game playing....or is it just im crap?? ive noted if i get rejected it knocks me, yet there are other lads who play the game and can have a few on the go

[Octavius]

I dunno, sounds to me like she was right. Maybe you did see more into it (certainly giving me that impression) and it isn't a feeling she shared.

[sara3]

I've never responded to your earlier (and numerous) posts along the same lines, but have been surprised and a little uncomfortable with your comments. I'd say you are over-emotional, maybe even over-dramatic, and personally I would think a woman would find that off-putting.

you need to be happy with who you are before you look for happiness elsewhere. sadly, life is full of rejection but we have to pick ourselves up and carry on.

[angryman2008]

but i was trying to show i wasnt gnaf **** her around....and it was her doing the running.......once you show a slight weakness ur ******.....

[DungeonJayne]

Tour post hits the nail on the head angryman.

For me, I think it's the bit where you say ...

"... is it just I'm crap?"

[angryman2008]

why have i made you uncomfortable? i dont vent these things to people....just on here because i feel if i dont get feedback i wont learn

[cazzz1975]

you have got to not over think the situation, half of your issues become massive problems because you invest so much time thinking about them, the blokes that you aspire to do not give these worries any thought.

you have to let go of the continual thought processes and try to relax, give the woman searching a break for a while and do something different, you will relax and become the person you want to be. your life is not defined by having a girlfriend

[angryman2008]

thats the thing i didnt even get a 2nd date after her thousand of compliments....im25 and still cannot see where im going wrong.....too nice? my parents had kids and marriage by 24

[snagged]

Its fate... move on...

[cazzz1975]

you are only young!, look around you, most people are not even thinking about kids until their mid 30s, you need to relax and stop giving yourself time limits, life will happen when it happens

[sara3]

well Raggy, we can see the kind of women you've been attracting!

[sara3]

retract? do they DO retract??!

[andrea81]

You wont feel this way when the 'right' one comes along!

This will just be another part of your life that wont matter in the slightest! You'll wonder what you were worrying about! We've all been through these kinds of upsets and now when I look back, I giggle!

[sara3]

we're a bit of a rarity, Raggy x