out on the pull tonight

[angryman2008]

not just after one thing, ideally would like to make friends with a load of girls but trying to b realistic, i havent got gift of gab and actually approaching makes me cringe as i know they probably know what im doing. dont want to make it a big deal of it or make it the focus of the night but im feeling good young and healthy so whats the harm in attempting to have a love life? any tips apart from the be confident and tough love cliches?

[joggerjayne]

The most attractive person in a room is not the best looking person, but the most confident person.

Always.

Unless Tyra Banks is in the room too. Then it doesn't work.

[Sachs]

Just be you! As you are now on here. Have a great night! xxx

[joggerjayne]

Aww, noknowledge, that's mean.

But yeah, nothing wrong with a good DIY.

[knobster]

I used to go for the direct approach like "would you like to sleep with me" or variations on that, now you may get a few slapped faces and a few nice smiles but it does work sometimes If you have the balls to do it

[Sachs]

lol knobby!!! xxx

[angryman2008]

i love diy but it gets boring, plus how will i ever get a gf if i dont at least build friendships. id say i was quietly confident so that probably cuts my chances as there are so many men in town more outgoing and know how to play the game

[ChuckFickens]

yeah, don't go out on the pull

Just go out to have a good night and see what happens, if you go out to pull it won't happen, enjoy yourself and be yourself and it probably will.

[Sachs]

I think there's a lot to be said for making a woman laugh!

[joggerjayne]

Hey, Chuck.

Not seen you for a bit.

[angryman2008]

yea i know a guy with no shame ......got slapped lots but he is now probably better off for being like that whereas im having problems.....oh well ican only be me....

[Sachs]

'Or variations on that' (proper geezer quote! ) xxx

[Jugglering]

I totally agree with Chuck... you definitely won't *pull* if you look like you are trying to *pull* (lol.. you know what I mean!).... What I find attractive in a man is a nice smile btw, so go out with a mate, enjoy yourselves and if you are having fun, it will reflect in your body language - you will be smiling with your eyes as well as your mouth.

[Sachs]

;0)

[cazzz1975]

take the pressure off yourself first, most people do not have the gift of the gab, just aim at having a good night, if you get a few numbers whilst your out thats nice

dont over think the situation, dont self scrutinise.

remember at a club you have to keep things light and frivolous, no heavy coversation just smalltalk (music,work)

[Sachs]

(unless you're an undertaker )

[boogieboogie]

I don't agree with some comments. I find over confidence a real turn off. I wouldn't be impressed with anyone like this as it's usually to hide some other inadequacy.

They do say that smiling makes a person 80% more attractive but if not a genuine smile can appear cheesy..

I also think if you are desperate to pull your body gives off that vibe which is ok becasue there are many a female desperate to pull also who give off the same vibe.. just look for the gals with the desperation on their face... hehe

[cazzz1975]

are they called the 3am girls?

[joggerjayne]

Is that like a "two o'clock goddess" ?