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Selfish boyfriend or me being lame
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Right!! I've just got off the phone to my boyfriend and we were talking about going to the casino tomorrow night. He is going to America (taking in Las Vegas, Northern ligts, Alaska etc) for 3 weeks next month and in the phone convo he mentioned Las Vegas casinos and i said in jest 'oh i can't belive you're going to Las Vegas without me!' and he got shirty and said 'well i did invite you'. HA!! We started dating in Dece,ber last year and he said he has been thinking about a 3 week america trip and asked if id like to go. I said id love to but wouldnt be able to afford it for at least a year. So that was that. And then in March, he booked it for himself and a mate from work to go on!! I would have loved to have gone, but couldnt afford a 3 week trip this year. So now anyway he is going and we havent been away at all this year as he has used all holiday and savings on this trip. His parents even gave him �5,000 after he saved the cash 'to enjoy himself.' I live by myself, he lives in a houseshare. we are both in our 20's. Is he selfish or am i lame? Just wanted to vent my anger! any opinions welcome thanks xx
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.He's not being selfish, he DID ask you. The fact you can't afford it is irrelevant, unless as said, you expected him to invite you for free! It's not his fault your financial situations are different, and if he wants to do something he has been planning for a long time, and you can't, then let him do it! I think you are being a bit jealous there.
Enjoy yourself while he's away!
Enjoy yourself while he's away!
Hes a ************* ****, Tell him he should go **** himself because couples do things together and take trips together, and if he cant wait for you or pay for you, he should go **** himself. Your not lame you have been left behind and he seems happy about it because hes enjoying being selfish, dont take it babe, dont ****** take it.
From a male perspective I can honestly say that behaving the way you are is very offputting to a man, as it smacks of self centredness and jealousy. You hardly knew the guy when he booked his trip and he invitde you, so why the hell are you getting so bent out of shape about things. Even within a relaitonship it's nice to be free to do things with friends etc, so as suggested just let him enjoy himself and you go off and enjoy yourself, and mangosam...you're just scary:)
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