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Bexxie82 | 17:23 Wed 27th Aug 2008 | Relationships & Dating
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Is it acceptable for your best friend to go out with your ex-boyfriend 4 days after you splitting up? What's everyone's opinions on this?
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I wouldnt find it acceptable but then again im sure there are people out there who wouldnt mind it.
I wouldnt like it done to me, put it that way
not acceptable!
Would definatly stay an ex and she would be an ex best friend
I would be wondering 'when' they really did get together.

Hurts- but best you find out how callous the pair of them are now rather than way farther down the line.

BTW -bet it doesnt last.
wont be acceptable to me.
You obviously split up because you weren't compatible.

What if they are soul mates and you you deny them the opportunity. I would say good luck to them both.
If ur friend doesn't mind having ur left-overs!
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I was once told that "All's fair in love and war", which sounds very harsh. I have heard from many circles that it is a no-no to EVER date your friend's exes, so I would also wonder when they really did get it together.
erm...no! i would be very upset with both parties - and prbably wouldn't speak to them again. some best friend!!!
Ouch! really ouch!!

No not acceptable! Time will make you feel better about it but not a nice thing to be put through!
i would suggest your friend wasnt really your best friend



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If he went off with your best mate (some mate!) after 4 days.... then you are well shot of him.....
Not acceptable at all. I would find a new best friend for sure.
It depends.
If you chucked him, then you probably wouldn't be bothered. If he chucked you and you were devastated, then it would be a horrible thing for a so called best pal to do!
I think the unsaid rule of thumb is to by pass your friends ex's if possible but as a matter of etiquette the friend should be asked for her blessing!
This is one of the unspoken lines that you just don't cross (usually).
Never appropriate. I have a friend who is 60 and split with her hubby a year ago. The best friend now ex-BF- is now with him. My friend is more upset at losing her friend than the husband. I told her that even my teenage students know this rule! If one dares break it there will be fight for sure!!!

I wouln't want to be with any husbands of my friends. EEEWWW!! I know all the bad stuff, so why would I do that?

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