Best friend & Ex

[Bexxie82]

Is it acceptable for your best friend to go out with your ex-boyfriend 4 days after you splitting up? What's everyone's opinions on this?

[JK04]

I wouldnt find it acceptable but then again im sure there are people out there who wouldnt mind it.

[lil75]

I wouldnt like it done to me, put it that way

[sunchime]

not acceptable!

[SHELLP]

Would definatly stay an ex and she would be an ex best friend

[Drisgirl]

I would be wondering 'when' they really did get together.

Hurts- but best you find out how callous the pair of them are now rather than way farther down the line.

BTW -bet it doesnt last.

[mirela]

wont be acceptable to me.

[bobbybob]

You obviously split up because you weren't compatible.

What if they are soul mates and you you deny them the opportunity. I would say good luck to them both.

[terambulan]

If ur friend doesn't mind having ur left-overs!

[JonnyBoy12]

I was once told that "All's fair in love and war", which sounds very harsh. I have heard from many circles that it is a no-no to EVER date your friend's exes, so I would also wonder when they really did get it together.

[stonekicker]

erm...no! i would be very upset with both parties - and prbably wouldn't speak to them again. some best friend!!!

[ChuckFickens]

Ouch! really ouch!!

No not acceptable! Time will make you feel better about it but not a nice thing to be put through!

[pmorris1961]

i would suggest your friend wasnt really your best friend

[banjobabe]

No.



Bb xx

[Petal~flower]

If he went off with your best mate (some mate!) after 4 days.... then you are well shot of him.....

[fideldyfee]

Not acceptable at all. I would find a new best friend for sure.

[Le Chat]

It depends.
If you chucked him, then you probably wouldn't be bothered. If he chucked you and you were devastated, then it would be a horrible thing for a so called best pal to do!
I think the unsaid rule of thumb is to by pass your friends ex's if possible but as a matter of etiquette the friend should be asked for her blessing!

[ceejn]

This is one of the unspoken lines that you just don't cross (usually).

[EngTeach]

Never appropriate. I have a friend who is 60 and split with her hubby a year ago. The best friend now ex-BF- is now with him. My friend is more upset at losing her friend than the husband. I told her that even my teenage students know this rule! If one dares break it there will be fight for sure!!!

I wouln't want to be with any husbands of my friends. EEEWWW!! I know all the bad stuff, so why would I do that?