De stressing your husband!

[Uttingbuzz]

Anyone got any tips on how to quickly de stress my husband when he comes home from work. He realises he takes hours to unwind and until then there is no point me making any advances of a sexual nature (i thought these would be the ideal de stresser but seems not) i am on a mission to help him de stress, (he is welcoming of my help btw) Any ideas please? no stupid answers please i use this site for genuine help not smart alec or derogatory comments. ta

[daniela31]

Why not have a warm bath ready for him, and a glass of his favourite drink waiting and a bit of relaxing music in the background.
Offer to give him an all over massage with body lotion.

[pmorris1961]

would it help him to have some time to himself, my ex used to unwind for half an hour on his treadmill and i could judge how stressed he was by how fast he went !!!!

i never interrupted and i never tried to tell him anything until he had done his half hour , had a bath and emerged ..........

i would then have tea ready and as above a beer !!!

[Uttingbuzz]

Yeah i have learned not to interupt or bombard him with things when he walks in, think i will try the bath tonight followed by a nice dinner and beer! I am currently redecorating the spare room so the cross trainer isnt available for him to jump on so think i will get that room back up and running as soon as too! Cheers for those!

[andy-hughes]

i think the best solutyion is to let him find his own de-stress techniques.

I am sure you are tryuing to be helpful with offers of sexual activity, but for some men, that in itself can be stressful, how ever will intentioned!

Give him some space to relax, and he will let you know when he is ready to 'receive visitors' - and you can carry on takling his mind off things from there.

[lozzylou]

i always have a hot bubble bath waitin for my partner and a coffee always chills him out

[Velvetee]

I wish I had the inclination to make sexual advances to my partner.

[oldgrape]

simple answer sex

[pips1]

I wish I had a partner to make sexual advances to!

[puddicat]

why are you pandering to his stress, would he do the same for you??he has to find is own outlet, this sounds very similar to when fifties housewives had a manual for when there husband came home from work lol!!!

[Velvetee]

I don't make sexual advances towards my partner, but I do distress him alot.

[Uttingbuzz]

When we were talking about it on Sun eve and he was saying how he finds it hard to unwind he actually asked if i could find out if there are any techniques etc that may help him, i am not a 50's wife and oldgrape if you had read my initial post you would know that wasnt the answer. Some of you have said leave him to it and puddicat i love him, we are married and its part of what i signed up for, helping, and he has asked for help so i am looking into it, and yes he would do the same for me. I appreciate your answers none the less.

[gucciman]

i wish my missus would make sexual advances to me instead of me having to beg for my once a month pleasures!

and a nice bj would destress me a treat !