Not ready for advice or comfort yet but....

[Suzyboo]

if anyone would like to join in the insults, that might help. I was going out with a fella for 3 and a half years and have just been dumped BY EMAIL. What a selfish immature cowardly tw@t he is.

[tiggerblue10]

That is so low Suzyboo. He obviously hasn't got any balls.

I was seeing someone a few years ago and he just stopped calling me. I tried calling him but he wouldn't answer his phone!

[sara3]

well rid, girl. chin up.

he sounds like a right arse, I'm sorry.

men!

[Suzyboo]

I know - I wish it hadn't taken me this long to find out though

[Ethel]

Blerdy yellow belly coward.

I spit on him

[tiggerblue10]

How would you know though. The only time you find out is when it happens unless we could all read minds. Its one of those live and learn situations which leave a bad taste in your mouth.

[Sgt.Rock]

And of course its only men who do this sort of thing.

[ChuckFickens]

I sympathise totally, it's a rough thing to happen to anyone, my last GF dumped me by text message.

He's not worth getting upset over it he would do that sort of thing.

[sara3]

Sgt.Rock, this is what girls do when one is in distress.

we know all men are not the same!

[tiggerblue10]

I know some women who have done it as well. Both are guilty but when it happens the anger comes out. I think Suzyboo is just expressing her anger Sgt.Rock.

[jno]

emails show care and compassion - compared with text messages. My sympathies to you and Chuck, but Chuck is right, anyone who would do that is not someone you would want to spend your life with.

You might like to ask yourself (I am not being rude, just practical) how you didn't notice for three years that he was immature and cowardly. Did you miss any signs? Can you learn from the eperience?

[jno]

sorry, just noticed the wording of the Q, you didn't want advice!

[Suzyboo]

I wasn't even generalising - I just want you all to insult one person!

[sara3]

well I think he is a sh!t.

hope that helps a little :o)

[Suzyboo]

jno Don't worry about offering advice. It doesn't offend me. It's just too soon to think of it as a learning experience rather than a kick in the teeth

[Sgt.Rock]

How do we know it was all his fault though, two sides to every story.

[Eve]

What a !@!?!!

I remember getting a dumping text after he'd just dropped me at work and knew I'd be in the office all day, I was hiding behind the desk crying for most of it and the next morning it took my mum about 10 minutes to work out what I was saying I was crying so hard down the phone.

Funnily enough, most of my friends seemed quite pleased I wasn't with him anymore, love is definitely blind!

Get it all out hon then get the cowardly scroat out of your head and good riddance xxx

[Suzyboo]

Sgt Rock, the end of the relationship is not specifically the issue, just that the method of delivering the news is so lacking in respect or care that it adds insult to injury after this length of time

[jackthehat]

Sgt Rock - I think that as this thread has been specifically put up by Suzyboo in order that other Abers can come forwards and trash her no good, good-for-nothing, low-down, belly-in-the-dirt ex fella.............it ill becomes you to be a voice calling out for even-handedness.........

[ELVIS68]

At least let us see the email so we know how far to go with the insults

[PatriciaH]

Sounds to me your well rid of the spineless coward !
fancy ending a relationship by text ! youre better off without him