How to handle being around the person you love... with someone else.

[torn-in-two]

Tomorow night I'm going to a party in a friends house, I will be there with old friends who I don't speak to anymore... but the hardest part is I will be there with my ex and the girl he is dating.

He has told her that she is the first girl he has liked since me and I was with him for two years but finished about 2 and a half months ago.

Last week... Between a few days it went from him telling me he loved me and wanted to be with me again but two days later he tol me he didnt want to speak to me again.

I love him so much, But now know that this is it... Its over and theres nothing more I can do..

My question is How do you keep from starting fights or crying when the person you love is there with someone new?
Any idea's of how I can try make it even an ok night?
Or an other idea's on it?

thanks.. xxx

[BillySugger]

Simple answer , call your friend make your apologies & don't go .

[brenda]

Why put yourself through this misery and perhaps end up making a scene which will not do your self esteem any good.

Don't go , get some friends in and chill, there is no need for you to make your self more unhappy than you are.

Just remember that life is to short to stuff a mushroom.

[Maypole]

absolutely agree - far too soon. Dont Go.

[mirela]

yeah, best is not going.

[Suzyboo]

I agree with the other advice that there doesn't seem to be a reason from what you have told us why you actually need to go to the party and put yourself through that. If you do still feel that you have to go, could you take a close friend with you as well for support?

[torn-in-two]

Thanks for all the advice !!

The reason i wanted to go was to prove that no matter what happened my ex could'nt stop me from doing things i wanted to do, just because he was there.

I went though and had a very good time, but of course it was all brought up and commotion started but we just kinda got on with it and had a laugh with the rest.

xxx