What Should I do ? ? ?

[bms]

my girl friend is discussing all our problems with you answerbank people? As at the beginning of our relationship, we agreed that our problems will be non-of -someone else's business, other than social worker on the condition that we (me and her) see him/her (Soc.Wor) together.

She is lying in most posts she puts here so that I'll be seen as a bad person, whereas the things that she says I'm doing, some are not true.
The things I thought are between me and her are all over the world!
Should I trust her? Leave her to answerbank gentlemen? Or Consult a social worker about this.

I'm sure she is going to reply to this as well, not taking note that this about her.

[Lakitu]

Who's your girlfriend?

Actually, why don't you step in to the threads when you see them and give your version of events?

[ChuckFickens]

go on tell us who she is on here.

[dot.hawkes]

what a very strange question, if she is your GF speak to her man!!!!!

[onlyme26]

unless she has told us she is your girlfriend then we wouldnt ever know she was talkign about you, i think you may have blown yourself up there a bit,

plus the comment about leaving her to the answerbank gentlemen???? what the hell???? this isnt a dating site, its a site to get advise and help off others!

you sound terribly jealous,

if she is lying about you then that is wrong and you should talk to her or if you aint botherd about us knowing who u are then like the thread before join in and defend yourself!!!

[redcrx]

social worker?
i thought SW dealt with children rather than couples?

[onlyme26]

yeah i was wondering that???

[Lakitu]

But even if they weren't for children only, why the heck would you consult a social worker?

[happyone2]

there are many questions that i wonder about here ??

- is your girlfriend a lot younger than you
- do you have or need to have control over her every move
- why cant she see her SW on her own ? without you ?
- do either of you or both of you, have mental health issues ?
- you say some things are not true............. so some are ??
- why do you need to consult a SW ?
- why is it your business what your girlfriend does on answerbank ?
- are you threatening her by suggesting you will tell a SW about this ?
- r u afraid of the advice that she is being given ??

interesting

[redcrx]

ooops my mistake
"Roles include working with people with mental health problems or learning disabilities; working with people who are in residential care; working with offenders, by supervising them in the community and supporting them to find work; assisting people with HIV/AIDs and working with older people at home helping to sort out problems with their health, housing or benefits."

if you are suffering from mental heath problems and the SW is there to help you then perhaps you really should discuss it with the SW

[4getmenot]

well we may all think bad of you know if you're going to come on and tell us who your girlfriend is.
speak to her, maybe thats why she comes on here because you have just said should you trust her, leave her to us or contact your social worker. Seems like she has no one to speak to. maybe she doesnt even want to speak to a social worker

[Velvetee]

That's what I thought, Social Worker, is she a child or a geriatric?

Maybe she consults the Answer Bankers, because she feels she cannot speak to you. You sound like you have an immature relationship, perhaps you should both move on?

[barney1966]

have you considered the Jeremy Kyle show?

[bms]

Just forgot one word in the beginning of the first line " If "

[onlyme26]

you cant get out of it thaty easily!!
you said and i quote "she IS lying in most posts"

[bms]

What do you mean "you cant get out of it that easily!! "

Put an "If" in the begging of each an every sentence, if you like, as well as if you think that an "if" I told you about is insufficiant.

[cassa333]

I think you need help.....i think you should seriously think about the sort of person you are and go and see someone who can sort your brain out.................

i fear for this young persons safety i really do

[bms]

cassa333
Why don't tell the world about the one who sorted yours? May be you didn't complete the course/treatment.
You giving wrong/harsh answers sometimes not being aware that most people would add some lies on their stories so that answerbank staff sees them as innocent people.