Help

[RunRedRiot]

im really really REALLY bad at awkward situations and telling people bad news. I need help with this one thing and i was wondering whats the best way to break up with your boyfriend. Its a long story and i really dont feel i should be with him anymore. Help

[zzxxee]

in a letter sent to his house

[martin t]

by text - seems to be the in thing now

[RunRedRiot]

regardless how i do it, im going to see him frequently and i wouldnt mind staying friends but i dont want him to hate me

[lil75]

Just tell him! I am the opposite, can keep my mouth shut, if I have something to say, I say it! Why should you keep things in and suffer/worry over it, when it could be sorted out so easily with just a few words!

[lil75]

That should have said...cant keep my mouth shut!

[zzxxee]

hve a couple of drinks for dutch courage if you have to meet somewhere and just tell him there really is no easy way

[puddicat]

umm break up and be friends very rare!!!

[madmaggot]

You never know, he may be feeling the same but not want to hurt you by finishing it. Just say that the relationship is not working for you and you feel that it would be best if you were to be just friends rather than carrying on with something that is wrong for you.

[RunRedRiot]

im sure theres other people for both of us
there is someone else i like and im positive he still likes his ex (who he is friends with!) and if he is i will be relived

[pjm007]

Tell him his helmet smells like a French cheese counter.

[tabytha]

the only reason someone wants to remain friends with an ex is to be able to rub their faces in their new relationships. if its not ur intention fair enough but it wont be pleasant. make a clean break what r u afraid of? do it face to face dont be a coward x