How to show my boyfriend what feels goot to me?

[Lex123456]

Whenever my bf is fingering me, he gets VERY close and doesnt realize how close he has come. I have a problem with vocalizing these kinds of things...so how can i show (or some LITTLE words i can say) him what feels good? And also, he didnt know about the clit, so i told him about that and he doesnt know where it is...how do i 'show' or tell him where it is without just like ripping my pants off?? And trying to be a bit sensual whilst doing it?

[andy-hughes]

Communication is a vital part of good sex.

Our talents are many, but mind-reading isn;t one of them.

A lot of men appreciate a little direction.

You could say something like "That's really good, just there ..." when he is in the right area, or just stiffen and gently move his hand if he strays into somewhere uncomfortable.

Hopefully he will learn to recognise your signals, but don't be afraid to direct him verbally - every little helps!

[4getmenot]

ripping your pants off isnt going to help if he already has his finger in the pie is it??

[sqad617]

Good morning, kitesurfer etc. etc.
Please Andy....don't "buy" this one.

[4getmenot]

you can usually tell time it was posted as to whether its a joke or not. but andy is as always just giving good advice.

[no-knowledge]

what's a clit?

[sara3]

I ♥ andy-hughes

[sqad617]

4get.....andy always gives good advice, but I don't like him being taken for a "ride".

[4getmenot]

♫♫ Love is in the air ♫♫

[4getmenot]

I think he knows it likely to be a joke he's just being helpful incase it isnt. Dont think he looks out for trolls as much as some

[no-knowledge]

Is it that stuff Barry Scott keeps banging on about?

[sara3]

yes it is, nk. ask your wife if she gets any at the supermarket.

[no-knowledge]

are we still talking clit bang?

[no-knowledge]

come to think of it she is rather friendly with the chap on the meat counter. You could be right.

[ummmm]

How do people think these things up..??

[sara3]

maybe.. does she seem to be getting more meat than usual?

[Bbbananas]

even I can't handle this sort of thing at this time in the morning. My smut-o-meter doesn't get underway until at least my first mocha. Fingering? I hate that expression - so common.
I think it's a wind-up anyway.

[sqad617]

salla...good morming, I totally agree......"fingering" indeed.

[andy-hughes]

Hi guys

I did wonder if this was a wind-up, but I answered it seriosuly in case it was real, or in case someone read it who might benefit from my thoughts.

It's very kind of you to think of me - your support is appreciated.

Lex, if you are teasing, maybe you should consider finding another way to amuse yourself?