my partner of 3 years moved in with me from down south in october. i found messages on his phone dated about then from a female who he says is just a friends partner. she kept going on about how she liked him a lot and she didnt think he was like that and she wasnt going to wait around the house waiting for him to call. his reply wasasking her to be patient and that he would chat and explain to her soon. i really dont know what to think. help please