Should i tell him ?

[nakitaxx]

i met a lad about 2 and a half yrs ago he was a friend of a friend ..... i did sleep with him the first night i met him ... drink and lust !! ..... since then we have sporatically txt and emailed each other to meet again .... it didnt happen up until 5 weeks ago .... i just presumed it would be another meeting same as the last which i was happy with(i dont do it often lol) ... we met up and he came round my house after a night out ..... i slept with him again but since then we meet every weekend ... he is always wanting to hold my hand or at least be sat close to me .... i woke up in the morning to him staring at me ... not in a loony way .... he grabbed me close and hugged me .... he gets on really well with all my friends and thinks my son is a good lad ... they have little chats in the afternoon when my sister drops him off from babysitting ... my son never sees us hug or kiss .... im really starting to like this lad alot and want things to move further ..... i dont kno if he feels the same and i dont want to ask incase im just a "buddy" in his eyes .... pls help its all i can think about xx

[joggerjayne]

Hopefully he sees you as more than just a buddy. It sounds as though he's rather taken with you.

I'd tell him !!

[Jonathan---]

Sounds like he feels the same as you!
If he just wanted to be a 'buddy with benefits' i think he'd distance himself emotionally from your son.
If you want the truth ask him after some action - you'll get the most honest answer then ha!

[nakitaxx]

i think the same jayne ... well i hope he does im just scared i think of how he will react ... i sent him a silly txt once which starts as if ur talking about a realtionship .... i need answer i cant move on until i kno .... then ended in do u prefer skips or wotsits ...... he said he got a hot sweat on had to get his mate to finish readin the msg cos he felt sick and didnt kno wht to do ... until he obv realised it was a joke .... which made me think does he want more or not if he reacted so badly to thinkin i wanted a relationship x

[legend-isgod]

how old are you?

[nakitaxx]

oooo sly jonathan .... but good thinking ha x

[rinkins]

Ha ha LOL I got that text too!

Go for it, it will only cause you heartbreak if you never find out x

[Ankou]

Just ask him straight, least then you'll know either way and if good, then hopefully make a go of it, or if bad, know where you stand.

[nakitaxx]

i'm 27 and he is 24 x

[ummmm]

Why don't you ask him if he fancies doing something in the week. Cinema etc....

[nakitaxx]

lol rinkins ... u kno why he panicked then ... cheers for the advice guys x

[nakitaxx]

i cant he works away all week ..... has done for as long as ive known him .... ive asked him to come round sober one night .... he said he will .... we'll see .... i'll probably end up drunk so im a tad braver ... then make a total fool of myself lol x