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Haha, that's fantastic homedeeth. TurtleWax, it's not that I'm afraid of wasting the last 3 1/2 years, I just think having given in to him for so long, it's too late to start changing things now. Isn't it? I wouldn't know where to start! Sara3 he's very funny at times, he's really loving, he SAYS he loves me more than anything and treats me well the majority of the time. It may sound like i'm contradicting myself here. I really do love him. But I can't help but feel with the amount i do for him, he doesn't do an awful lot in return other than hugs and kisses and words of love. Relationships take more than that. He can also use emotional blackmail and he's very sly and manipulative at times. He sounds absolutely horrible on here, but he's not. I'm just struggling with this, as I think if he loved me as much as he says he does, he would do anything to make me happy. He's not going to budge though, so I need to forget this and just move on.