bust size problems

[jock.strap]

met a lovely lady, but she is obsessed with her small breast size. She is small 36a at most. It doesnt bother me. But she is consumed by the fact that they are so small. She wont have implants. Told her, she is lovely. But she still thinks she is unwomanly

[craft1948]

I'm sorry but can I just say I had to snigger at a post about bust size by someone called jock.strap........sorry...

[ummmm]

How long have you been with this 'lovely lady'?

I don't think there is much you can do TBH. Time will tell.

[jock.strap]

no problem craft1948. ummmm, been together a few months

[ummmm]

Well then give it time. Some people take a long time to feel confident with a new partner. Eventually she'll realise that you love her as she is.

[jock.strap]

thats what I hope ummmm. But she feels she is surrounded by big breasted women, at work, and if she goes out. she feels inadequate.

[ummmm]

She might do now but as time goes on she'll start to feel more confident. Hopefully.

She's probably just seeing how you react and when she eventually believes that you're happy with them as they are then she might start being happy.

[sazzle86]

Tell her that breasts come in all shapes and sizes, u can never find a pair the same as ne1 else's.
Try boosting her confidence by saying that she looks lovely, her top flatters her figure etc.
Anything is worth a try! x

[jock.strap]

thanks ummmm, for your replies. I think she just feels inadequate as a woman for being smaller "up top" thinks she feels she has to have a big chest to be womanly.

thanks for your replies

[ummmm]

Having big boobs is a pain in the ar$e.

Tell her you're a legs and bum man who likes small boobs.

[jock.strap]

thanks sazzle86, her ex husband left her for a woman with implants. So think thats got a lot to do with her problem.

[jock.strap]

ok ummmm, lol, thanks again

[ummmm]

I went out with a bloke who's Ex had inplants. He hated them.

[jock.strap]

thanks again ummmm

[Sqad]

Jock,

This is not an easy problem to be solved, but luckily I am here to give you some informed advice.

Now. a)�..Her little t1ts bother you.
b)�..Her little t1ts bother her.

From what you have said, a) does not apply, so we will focus on b)

Bottom line is:

a) He must live with the having little t1ts
b) She needs a breast augmentation operation��.implant.

c) clearly does not apply in her case, so we will concentrate on b)

Are you with me so far?

Ummmm has given some excellent advice, given with sincerity and understanding.

Your girlfriend must concentrate on the positive aspects of her persona, good looks, nice hair, nice bum, good at oral and so on and you must focus on these. In my vast experience of such matters, it is often the case that women who have small t1ts are often more sensitive to breast and nipple stimulation often resulting in premature orgasm (if any orgasm can be premature)

We all have hang-ups about some parts of our bodies and we never lose conscious of them, but we learn to live with them, and, with your help, jock, so will she.

[Bbbananas]

I like your answer sqad - as per usual !!!

I think the main crux of the matter is as you say halfway through the thread - her ex-husband left her for a woman with implants. For a woman of low self-esteem about her breast size, that must have really put the icing on the cake for her.

If she doesn't want surgery herself, and I don't blame her, she will eventually learn to live with them (if never learn to love them) - you just keep doing & saying what you are and try to convince her you love her just the way she is.

[sara3]

she probably just notices larger chested women and doesn't focus on those who aren't.

if her ex left her for some false boobs, that says a lot more about him than it does about her!

also, a lot of large chests are attached to large women. I'd rather be slimmer and in proportion than have fat boobs on a fat body.

[katy77]

can i just say...i thought i was a 36a just because i have small boobs. My mum told me to get meassured and the lady bought in a 32d bra. I opened the curtain and said sorry you have given me the wrong size? she said no put it on - I did and it fit. It has done my confidence the world of good and i feel so much better about my chest.Maybe your lady could do the same you never know...she may be pleasently suprised.

[lil75]

I have a friend that I always thought had humungous breasts, she always had them on show...then she confessed to the old chicken fillets, and it just pushed up the little that she had....I think a lot of women do this nowadays as they all seem to have massive boobs? There must be a lot of men out there that think eh? when they get here kit off lol!

[Slapshot]

My missus has just had hers reduced to a 34d they were massive before but she did have weight issues. The change in her is incredible, she's so happy and it's brought back her vivacity.

Unfortunately us poor blokes are stuck dealing with these issues despite our natural desire just to think about t1ts, you do need to pay attention to how your lady feels and this is not a good one to deal with, you've had some good advice, maybe one of these stylist types could help her enhance the way she looks and feels through her clothes, alternatively, enhancements are available on the NHS if the individual and GP can prove that the small breasts are making her really depressed

Hope it helps

[R1Geezer]

She can push them out a bit by enlarging the pectorals, fortunately it is one of the easiets muscles in the body to develop. Tell here to do press up initially then when they are too easy, ie she can do 4 x 10 then progress to bench presses applying the same logic. in about 6 weeks she'll add inches to her bust naturally. The pecs respond very well to overload.