Advice please

[niman81]

There is a woman in work that I really like. I would like to ask her out but dont want to mess things up at work we have to work closley together. She is flirty in work and out of work when on work nights out dont know if im reading the whole thing wrong or if there is something there. How do I find out without looking stupid?

[sn�gs]

Be honest and upfront with her... it could go either way... ask yourself how you'll feel if she knocks you back... you'll still have to see and talk to her every day... could you handle that?

[China Doll]

Ask her if she wants to grab lunch or a coffee or something during the day, see how that goes and then ask for a drink or dinner or something. If she's a sensible woman then she's not going to make you feel a mug for asking, it's flattering. Good luck.

[craft1948]

I had this problem (obviously years ago) and when we broke up it was so bad management actually moved us to different parts of the business.
On the other hand I have worked with 3 married couples who actually met at work.....

[lil123]

I agree it could go either way here.
There is a couple at my work who have just split up and the atmosphere has been terrible.
They are trying to hide it from management but it won't be long before it gets out cos of the way they are acting.
I would tread carefully and just take it steady.
Maybe ask her if she fancies a coffee or cinema something like that.
Last thing you want is ti take your personal life into the workplace if it goes wrong. It isn't nice

[China Doll]

Did you ask her? :c)