How to know If I deserve my boyfriend?

[whiteopal]

Me and my bf knew eachother for a few years b4 we got 2gether. Reason he waited to tell me how he really felt was because I was too young. Thing is, I always had feelings for him. However, b4 we got 2gether, his brother begged me to hang out, and he ended getting me wasted drunk. He ended up touching me. I didn't sexually touch him, but I acted like a drunken animal and did lead him on because I liked messing with guys heads. That was a horrible mistake and I didn't want him to do that. Now that I am with my bf, I feel I don't know If I am good enough for him. I mean, what really bothers me is that I always LONGED for my bf and then, THAT had to happen with his BROTHER?! I was very young & ignorant at the time. But I love my bf so passionately and want to know If I deserve him. He's wonderful to me.

[lil123]

You need to put the past behind you and move on with this guy who sounds really nice.

[Ankou]

everyone makes these sorts of mistakes in life. you need to move on and he needs to accept it happened and move on too (assuming he knows). this was before he came along dont forget.

[Sqad]

Whiteopal

I didn't sexually touch him, but I acted like a drunken animal and did lead him on because I liked messing with guys heads.


I just wondered if the question might have been...."does he deserve me?"

[onlyme26]

does your boyfriend know? about you and his brother?

i think he deserves to know, my partner of 10 years briefy went out with my sister, years and years before we met, when they were teenagers.....but im glad i know, i wouldnt want to find out years down the line, it would change everything between us.

so maybe you should fess up and see what happens

good luck xxx

[mccfluff]

you acted like a drunken animal? the only animal i've seen drunk is a dog and he just staggered round in circles and eventually fell asleep and farted a lot.....

You only as good as you feel about yourself, talk to him

[Bbbananas]

You were young, you were drunk, you were silly, you made a mistake - welcome to the World of Grown-Ups !!!

Stop beating yourself up about this opal. Of course you deserve someone nice. And he's wonderful to you - so stop wittering about the one-off drunken incident and get on with, and enjoy, your life.

do you never think your BF has acted drunkenly stupid? he would be most unusual if he hadn't. Bet your bottom dollar he never dwells on anything though!

[Bbbananas]

too true...........!!

Thanks vibra.

[Bbbananas]

Mmmmm.

He's been doing a lot of flirting with others - think he's gone off me. I may set my sights at a younger man.....

I think he was a bit harsh on poor young opal. I would have thought he would love the idea of a woman being a drunken animal ?!

[mccfluff]

you better not be talking about me or i'll come up there and slap you about with a wet haddock

[Bbbananas]

Butch from Tom & Jerry ?!!!
What a vision.
And with his tongue hanging out & his stubby tail waggling?

Bless him.

[Sqad]

salla... How dare you.....flirting with others........that's it.....were finished......go on, run back to Plaid....see if I care.

Now....would you like to have a son, associating with a woman who likes "playing with their minds?" Yes I was young once and yes I liked a bit of t1t now and again, but whitepal's antics would have been out of mu league.

P.S LUV YER

[Bbbananas]

Love you too honeybum xxx

I get where you're coming from sqad - I didn't like the playing with their minds comment, but I just think she's young & silly, not evil.... (Just keep her away from my son...b1tch...)

[Sqad]

salla...LOL

[Bbbananas]

I still have 'it'.
Whatever 'it' is.....!

[Bbbananas]

... and I don't mean crabs.