is it me?

[irene4758]

i am 34 and have had past relationships - not bad looking fun and well i just cant speak to guys to get them interested in me i find it impossible. I am shy really and reserved what should i do? I want to have some fun and get out there but i just dont know how?

[MarkRae]

Yes she does.

[123everton]

Do the things that you enjoy, birds of a feather flock together.
You sound quite charming, try volunteer charity work, lotsa nice people do that.

[tamborine]

request this again & again till your noticed in the clubs:

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[tamborine]

cant get embed thingy - stoooooooooopid me!

[lil123]

I used to be alot like you, easp after i left my violent ex husband, I owuld run a mile if a bloke so much as smiled at me lol x
I did lots of work on myself and had intensive counselling so that I could just totally accept myself as I am.
I got to that stage where I really didn't care if I was single as my life was going how I wanted it too.
Then I met my partner and our relationship has gone from strength to strength but if I had met him before all this, it wouldn't have as I wasn't ready.
Just enjoy who you are and don't even think of getting in a relationship for now.
I can suggest some great books that helped me if you like :) x

[TTG]

What are your hobbies/interests? Join a few clubs and I am sure you will meet lots of new people. You sound like a nice person...hope it works out.

[Bbbananas]

good suggestion darren - you should go on there more often! xx