What should I do?

[Simply_Lea]

I started work the other day and I met this guy who works with me. He's really amazing and sweet. When I'd finished work I started walking home and he left work early and came to find me so he could give me a lift home. He also helps me out a lot in the kitchen (we work in a pub kitchen), because I've only just started. I haven't asked him to help me, I didn't ask for the lift, but he did it anyway.
I really like him, but he already has a girlfriend. I was really jelous when I found out because he is just amazing. She is really lucky to be with him and I really wouldn't want them to break up because of me or anything, but I am finding it so hard. I like him so much.
I don't know what to do.
Help?

[Davethedog]

Three pages and Lea hasn't come back.

[redman41]

Not much feedback from Simply-Lea ! None at all, :-)

[ummmm]

She sounds like she's at the age where she is easily distracted....

[Bbbananas]

She's under the pub kitchen table .. being shown how to stuff a sausage..

[redman41]

LOL salla !

[bobjugs12]

Lol salla, please bear in mind he's soooooooooo amazing that he's probably giving her a lift (without the car if you get my drift nudge nudge)

[Davethedog]

Salla (:- O

[Bbbananas]

Maybe he really is amazing and sweet.
Maybe he really is just a good guy.
Maybe he doesn't have any ulterior motive...
Maybe the pope never really has been a catholic..
Think on that ye all.

[Androcles]

Hello, Hello, Hello...... Another "moral" post where the questioner throws the gauntlet down and then disappears - I smell a wind-up!

[ummmm]

She could be at work.....

Not many kitchens have internet access...

[Sqad]

Androcles.....so do I.

[Nosha123]

shall we mark this one down as a waste of time then???
since she hasnt come back...

troll???

[Nosha123]

sorry - wrong understanding of the word troll there!
This is not a troll posting....

although probably still a wind up

[askyourgran]

Still under the kitchen table?

[karenmac60]

I'm amazed everyone except ummmm thinks the 2 of them are at it or he's a slimeball. It just sounds to me like she's new at work and he's being nice and as a result she's got a crush on him. Nothing more nothing less. I've worked in places where there's a mixed staff and folk give each other lifts all the time - should it only be females giving lifts to females and males giving lifts to males? Can't folk just be nice and friendly without there being an ulterior motive?

[br21]

Dont go there! He is obviously attracted to you too.....but put yourself in her shoes if it was to happen to you. She will find out and it will all end it tears.

[Simply_Lea]

I have not had sex with him. I will not do anything with him, especially while he has a gf. I'm not even going to try and split them up. Because that would be low, ***-ish, and generally unkind of me.
I only didn't respond because I figured people wouldn't respond to me, so thank you all. Even you little gits who've been calling me a 'tart' and a 'slapper'.
I still like him, lots. And I don't usually fall for guys like this.
Yes I would still like to be with him, but I am not that sort of person.
Thnk you for your advice.

[bobjugs12]

Your welcome Lea, I hope we helped :D (I still reckon your a wind-up lol)

[mccfluff]

Even you little gits who've been calling me a 'tart' and a 'slapper'.


WInd up....

[Simply_Lea]

Yes. It's a wind up. Thanks. You know me so well.
My problems are just a Fluffing joke.