this might sound shocking coming from me but......

suzie1 | 21:42 Sat 08th May 2010 | Relationships & Dating

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Do people actually have anal sex and what is it like? also do chinese christian people do that in order to preserve their virginity before marriage?

how can i got my boyfriend to be more phyical

Do all guys.......?

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Prudie

And unfortunately bob on this occasion you're not joking!

bobjugs12

I got told that joke by a woman prudie. TBH i've met girls who hate it, and girls who love it. Thats just the way of the world nowadays

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bobjugs12

My god, it's still here!!!

mccfluff

what a thread! i esp loved the comment from mamya about "pouncing"

zzxxee

nope not for me im afraid exit not entry !!!!!

ummmm

I get pestered for it.......nope nope nope. He's well endowed and I don't like PAIN...!!!!

andy-hughes

OK - so we've established that for some, it's a no no, either because they just don;t fancy it, right through to those who think it is wrong.

A few practicalities to consider -

The anus is not designed for intercourse, so it is not self-lubricating, so you need to use some lubrication.

The tissues of the anal passage are delicate, and rough penetration can tear delicate membranes, so he needs to be very gentle and careful at the start.

Tearing tissue can release blood, and combined with fecal matter, sit presents a health hazard for both partners - this is one way in which STD's are transmitted, so a condom is safer for both of you.

You might want to consider an enema to ensure you are completely 'empty' before anal intercourse - faecal matter tennds to linger and can be collected by the penis.

Because the anal muscles expend faeces, your natural and uncontrolable reaction will be to 'push' his penis out as it penetrates. You need to be totally relaxed in order to overcome this reflex.

So, if you fancy it, discuss it. ideally you should enjoy at least one vaginal orgasm first so you are relaxed, and from there, your partner needs to be patient and gentle.

Ignore what you see in adult films - these people are professional and do it for a living.

As amanteurs, you need to be very slow and gentle, with an agreed code word for you that means he will stop instantly if you are in pain, or simply not enjoying it.

OK - let us know!

redman41

Professional Porn stars who have been having anal sex for years suffer the consequences in later life as they cannot control their bowels and leakage is a not uncommon problem. Bugger that !