Girlfriend tells me there will come a time when she will become attracted to another man

[sman]

I am currently in a serious relationship with my girlfriend. We live together and are getting ready to move into a new place and have even discussed marriage. What I am unable to accept is that she tells me there will come a time when she becomes attracted to another man. Is this normal? She thinks that she is just being realistic and that is just how relationships go. I understand that we will find other people attractive but to say that she will become attracted to another man? She says that it will happen when there are problems in the relationship/marriage and will most likely be with someone she works with. Is it normal to tell your boyfriend this? Especially in a serious relationship? I know that she comes from divorced parents so perhaps her views are a bit jaded...but does this seem like an appropriate comment to make to your serious boyfriend. Please help!!!

[stephen26]

It sounds to me as if she is not commited to your relationship. Sit down and have a serious talk with her. Either she loves you or she is looking for somebody else! Ask her straight- is she in or out!! Good luck mate!