i know how your feeling, i was in the same boat not so long ago and we didnt have sex for a LOT longer than 4 months. TBH i think we got stuck in a rut and forgot how good it was, he was tired through work and i was tired getting up with the little one all night and sex became a low priority. I even started to have doubts about us carrying on, i knew i loved him with all my heart but i felt we had become more friends than anything. Now, with the advice of many on here we make the time for eachother, when the kids go down to sleep then we have OUR time. we cwtch up together and watch a film or something, we run baths for eachother, tell eachother how much we fancy eachother etc, its the littlest things that count and with these little things you learn to appreciate eachother more. We cant get enough of eachother now and its like ive falling in love with him all over again. When hes working nights we send eachother texts (some get a little rude) but hey were in honeymoon phase again! lol Always make at least one night for the 2 of you, see if someone can hhave your child for the night, go out if you can afford to but if not a night in does the trick just as well. Get yourself a bath to relax you both, open a bottle or 2 and cwtch up on settee watching film (more often than not this leads onto something else) but just relax and enjoy eachothers company. :-)