problems with a ex

[cheeruplovebug]

okay so my first year of high school, grade 10 i met a guy that was 18(turning 19) at the time (me being 15), quite an age difference but only a four year difference so i didn’t care. when we started getting closer i realized just how messed up his life was. From being in a comma for 2 years (which was why he was still in high school) to suicide attempts and sending me the letter, heart conditions that he need to get blood transfusions every week, to only have 10 years to live (I think its a lie), to having problems at home, and joining the military years before he met me then resigning so he could be with me and not to be mean but not very smart. This is the total opposite of my life. So short story he lied to me about past girlfriends, suicide and would keep texts from me and show people. I could’t keep up with his crap so I told him not to talk to me again. Start of a new school year didn’t talk at all, but all of a sudden starts thinking my girlfriends are in fact his friends and would always bother them with his pitty drama and talk about me. He started playying the card that I hate him for no reason and started to make people feel for him and that I was a b**** cause I would flip out at him when hed try to talk to me. So right now im in summer school and what a flippen surprise he’s in my class. Hes 20 now and creeps the hell out of me. Hes been pulling my friends out of class to ask them about me. And he even asked them to come with him to talk to me one word pathetic. He 20 years old and I act way more mature than him. So when he talked to me I told him that I hated him and would never forgive him for all the drama he caused for me, told him to leave my friends alone and to basically f off. Iv told him so many times before but he dosnet seem to get it, so this time I made it clear my feelings... he actually cryed. Was this right to do? and im kind of afraid that he’ll never stop,should do. Advice?

[cheeruplovebug]

like im honestly not a b**** but when it comes to friends and my life i will be if i have too. im really just getting to the point where i cant handle it. im 17 and should have to be dealing with a 20 year old ped who needs to get a life, grow up and leave me the hell alone.

[cheeruplovebug]

please help? :(

[Jan1957]

I'm sorry love but I think you just need to walk away and leave him to it. He is obviously trying to blackmail you and you are too young to need this worry. If, as you say, he has these problems then I'm sure he can seek professional help. He certainly sounds like he needs it.

Go and get a life of your own. Life is for living and enjoying.

[trt]

Your long Q gave me a headache, you are to young to worry about this problem.

[cheeruplovebug]

@trt sorry about that! it was actually to long the first time, so that was just the shorter version of it
@Jan1957 thank you for your advice, yah thats exactly what iv been thinking too, i just feel bad that hes trying to drag my girls into this. they def dont deserve it

and yah i agree with both of you. im def to young to be trying to deal with diplomas and then on top of that his never ending problems piled on me. its almost like hes trying to cut me off from my friends and family and make me come back.

[cherrychapstick]

You got some good advice here so all i will add is move on and best of luck for the future x

[cheeruplovebug]

@cherrychapstick Thank you! much appreceated ^.^