why wont he make time to see me??

[selinamc]

I met up with a guy less tan 2 weeks ago i sed to know and we met up 3 times during the weekend. We got on really well and after sleeping with him, the next morning we were talking and he asked me would i be his girlfriend.
i said id like to be his girlfriend and after this he walkd me back home. But the following weekend i cudnt see him because he was working. I spoke to him over the fon and he sed he would see me this weekend coming but tonight when spoke to him on facebook he said hes staying in friday ashes working saturday and sunday. I asked him if maybe i cud come over to see him instead of goin out but he neva replied. I just feel like now im getting mixed messaged and i know some guys havebusy work scheduls but i feel like i dont know how to get around this. what would u do?? any advice guys?? x

[4getmenot]

its way past your bedtime

[selinamc]

oh be serious will u!!! i need some advice please!!

[4getmenot]

Ok sorry, can you just explain the first line to me 'I met up with a guy less tan 2 weeks ago i sed to know and we met up 3 times ' and I'll try read the rest again

[sara3]

he's not interested.. that's not a mixed message.

you were up for it, end of. re-read your own previous posts.

[selinamc]

yes sorry. it said met up with a guy less than 2 weeks ago i used to know at the weekend and we went on 3 dates.

[4getmenot]

took me ages to work out what ashes working was too, but got that one now. Blokes dont like clingy or needy girlfriends, if you really want this to work play hard to get, if after that he doesnt contact you then you just wernt meant to be, move on.

[society]

How old are you? How old is this guy?

[selinamc]

were both 23.

[daffy654]

You sound more like a 14 year old.

[craft1948]

It must be a generation thing............you slept with him after less than 2 weeks and you're wondering why he's done a runner........

[daffy654]

Can you please not type in text speak in future? Your post was almost impossible to decipher.

[society]

I hope you were both smart enough to use condom.

[selinamc]

hmmm yeah true, i havnt rung him or texd him since we last went out. but its the work thing that bring me. its the 2nd weekend hes been working but he ssaid hes works weekend wen he can for extra money.

[daffy654]

LMAO @ Society.... smart?

[daffy654]

What the heck does "its the work thing that bring me" mean?

[4getmenot]

Can I just ask is English your first language? If not I'm sorry I jumped to conclusions

[4getmenot]

Although from past posts it seems you could spell then. I do hope with all these guys you ask questions about you are being careful

[askyourgran]

Selina take the hint, it's over. He would have made some sort of effort to see you if he reallly wanted to.

[China Doll]

He's not making time because he doesn't want to see you and is clearly not bothered enough to tell you this himself. Time to move on.

[mccfluff]

he got what he wanted now isn't interested, move on