How do I diffuse a Hen Party row?

[Frankieola]

My Fiance had her hen do last weekend and a row broke out between her friends and partners/wives of my friends. Apparently it go very nasty and almost ended up in a fight and "my" friends left immediately. Previous to this they had all got on well on the few occasions they had met.
My fiance is very upset, it ruined her hen do and I'm worried that the animosity will keep going until the wedding and may ruin that as well. I dont want to fall out with anyone, I dont really know who was at fault and I dont really care, But what can I do to try and sort things out?
Thanks in advance for any advice!

[ummmm]

Have a word with the husbands...

[ummmm]

What's you name? Mark?

Naughty doggie...

[andy-hughes]

Keep out of it!

You will get told - correctly - that it is none of your business, and it's far better to support your fiancee and let her friends sort out the rown themselves - they usually do when everyone has calmed down and sobered up.

[ummmm]

Of course it's his business if his wedding guests are arguing.

[andy-hughes]

Yes, but they are not his wedding guests ... yet.

If nothing is sorted by the wedding day, that's another issue. For now, he should let the protagonists sort it out themselves.

[ummmm]

True...but what does he do if it's not sorted before the wedding? Start refusing people, which could make it worse...

I'd still be inclined to have a word with the husbands. It's likely they will take a more practical approach to the situation and have a gentle word with their partners. The last thing someone wants on their wedding day is to have to worry about the guests. They also don't want the worry of what people will say/think if guests get 'uninvited'