how do you know if he likes you?

[_sophie_]

I always seem to go for the wrong people! They're always my brothers friends, how bad is that? He just has good looking friends i suppose! Anyway this particular one is only 4 years older than me (is that wrong?) and we see each other pretty much every week because he plays rugby with my brother so i go to watch their games with the family. I don't think he's that good looking, he's not ugly though, and he's not my usual type but there's just something about him, i don't know what it is but it draws me in. anyway wihout sounding like a gimp which i'm sure i already do.. i don't know if it's me being hopeful or if it really is happening but the past two weeks he looks over at me but i just can't look at him! when i see him looking at me i just look away again because.. i don't actually know why. anywaaaaay give me signs to find out if someone likes you!!! please!

[carmalee]

what ages are we talking about here Sophie?

[lumination]

sophie, from one sophie (myself) to another. im 19 and my boyfreind is 26. everything you just said is exactly what i had at the start of my relationship. plus the fact that i just dont date. period. my bf is not my type at all, i like the heavily tattooed into his rock metal music with long hair type of guy.
my boyfriend shaves his head, no tattoos, likes the music i hate but there was just something about him that i was drawn to, as are you.
months and months pass and im where i am now, totally head over heels in the love with the *** :D

i think you should go on a few dates and see what happens. if he likes you, he will ask you! if he doesnt then there will be someone that does!
i go by the motto: if he leaves, you shut the door after him.

[_sophie_]

Yeah umm I'm still pretty young(but mature!)... I'm 15 he's 19, don;t think my mum would be too happy if i dated him! We dont even know each other, we just know of each other and see each other every week.. i don't know how to get the ball rolling or if this is just a crush?! hahaha. i'm always so serious with things like this but i guess thats what its all about me being 15 and all.. ?!

[carmalee]

Sophie it probably is a crush but so what? it's important to you. Just be yourself, friendly and see how things go - you can't force anything or make things happen. Maybe he likes you or maybe he just thinks of you as his friend's little sister - whatever, treat him in a friendly manner and see what happens but don't throw yourself at him! - good luck

[woofgang]

just to give you hope, I was 14, he was 17, a boyfriend of my sister. We started dating when I got to 17 and married when I was 21, 36 years ago....
be calm, be friendly try not to blush, fall over your feet or go OTT and the best of luck

[boxtops]

Is gimp a current word - does it mean idiot? I would use that word in a number of definitions but if it's not needlework, it's not a very flattering way to describe yourself!

[woofgang]

gimp used to be a slang (derogatory) word for someone with a physical disability especially lameness.

[boxtops]

Well yes woofgang, that's why it seems strange in this context!

[woofgang]

I've heard it used like that before...like spazzy which i also hate

[dpantelis]

This is a really difficult question. I have done great mistakes when I thought that somebody was giving me the signs that she likes me. Take care and don't harry up.

http://www.singlesdatingwebsite.net

[TTG]

Just go and talk to him. Ask him how the game went. Maybe suggest going for a daytime coffee as a group and get talking to him even more.

[_sophie_]

Apologies, didn't mean 'gimp' to come across offensively

[lumination]

hows it been going so far sophie?