player or not?

[mbgklt]

how can you tell if the guy that you are dating is a player?

[joeluke]

Check whether he's brought his boots and shin pads with him?

[joggerjayne]

Did he leave a case shaped like a guitar in your hall ?

[Sqad]

He tells you that he loves you as he ................penetrates!

[joggerjayne]

Oh, god.

[MarkRae]

That's the usual response, JJ...

[mbgklt]

hehee thanks people

[welshlibranr]

I suspect that you already know the answer!.............

[China Doll]

Becomes very obvious very quickly, usually on the moment of meeting.

[DaisyNonna]

Too much money, too much ego, too much sex drive, too little intelligence.

[homedeeth]

see if he wears the number 69 on the back of his pyjamas

[rowanwitch]

He will probably use a nickname instead of your own name as it helps prevent unwanted slips....

so if you suddenly become peanut, pumpkin or whatever be warned

[Sqad]

What´s wrong with a player? Male OR female!

[rowanwitch]

So long as you know and are able to avoid getting involved its fine but if you are looking for lurrrve then you will get hurt when he/she doesn't change

[mccfluff]

nothing sqad - if that's what you want

[Sqad]

So....if one identified one´s partner as a "player" then if one wanted a meaningful relationship, then one should "back out"

But this isn´t borne out by real life, as if you indulge in the section of R&D one seen innumerable examples of women getting involved with identified "players" and yet do not want to leave them........despite opinions and advice by "esteemed" ABers.

There is also a suggestion that some women are "drawn" to losers.

[Markymarky36]

read the blog on this link, see if you could ever possibly spot a real player

http://matchcomshagfest.blogspot.com/

[Markymarky36]

Check this out and see if you will ever spot a true player!!!

http://matchcomshagfest.blogspot.com/

[jacksprat16]

get a good looking best mate to help out when you and b/f are out one night by her trying to get his attention on see if he takes her on,while you "nip" to the ladies

[pa___ul3]

how about just assume he's not until he does something to suggest otherwise! It's hard work dealing with 'trust issues' caused by new fancy's exes! Paranoia will destroy ya!