Thanks to you all and especially to Spotit3 for coming here with me for the first time last week, I have lost a whopping 6lbs this week.
Its the pattern for newbies I know but its mighty encouraging. Last week I weighted in the evening and this week I weighed this morning so I had to wait until tonight to weigh again to make sure it was still the same! And it was.
I'm not one to drink alcohol, I don't eat meat and I always have my 5 a day, but nevertheless I've been huge for ages now. I was getting down about it but still comfort eating on bread, cheese and biscuits. I couldn't face joining a slimming club, but coming here has had an unexpected and instant impact on my attitude. I seemed to have kicked the evening nibbling quite easily and moved at mealtimes over to cereal, rice, potatoes and noddles in place of bread, cheese, cakes and chocolate.
I've started to half a glass of grapefruit juice (thanks for that suggestion) in the evening where I might have reached for a biscuit and eaten a yoghurt when I'd have given in to chocolate. I haven't been hungry once but nor have I been perfect - I had a small piece of cherry cake to celebrate OH's birthday this week so I've kept it very real.
Once again, thank you everyone for being here and for sharing your experiences, it has made a life changing difference to me. I have a very long way to go but I'm delighted to have made a start at last.