Would It Be Cruel To Go Straight To Telling My Aunt She Needs To Move Out?

[Cindy1302]

I've posted enough about her on here, so you guys probably know about her, but I'll add some detail for those who haven't seen my other posts. My aunt moved into my house a couple of months ago. It took like a week to move all her stuff. And almost a week to move mine (I moved from my moms) so we worked pretty hard. She was miserable in the trailer she lived in, which she's trying to sell now, so I offered her a a place to stay. She's broke, and I knew that going into this, but all she does is bitch. It's the same *** over, and over again. Her, and my mom don't get along. She says she isn't going to put my in the middle of it, but than she just keeps talking about it, and tries to make me feel sorry for her. She's whinning about how people think she's asking too much for her trailer. I agree she is asking too much. She's gonna bitch about that too. She whines about how her legs don't work properly. She's fallen about 3 times since she's moved in. We are having trouble getting her address switched from her old to new, so she can receive mail here. So she complains about that 24/7. She has an eye test coming up, and if she doesn't pass it, she will have her license taken away. You can surely guess she's crying about that too. She asked me to hold her hand when she goes to take her eye test. I know that if she fails, she's going to bawl her eyes out in front of everyone. I also don't have much time anymore to do my hobbies, because as long as she's awake, she's always doing something, and she needs my help for almost everything. There are so many things I don't like about her, that I feel like just telling her to move out, and give her 30 days, and go stay at my moms during that time, because it's gonna be awkward. I don't want to make her move back into her trailer, because she was the most miserable she's been in her life while she was living there. Before she moved into my place, another friend offered her a place to stay, but my aunt said that after living with her friend for so long, she'd drive her crazy. Well, my aunt is driving me crazy. She's not even my aunt. She's just been a family friend my whole life, but none of my family likes her. So I know it's not just me. Most people who know her, know how she is. I'm pretty sure she's a narcissist. So like I said, I just want to kick her out, and live on my own with my cat, and have some piece. Sorry, I know that was long, but I wanted to add as much detail as possible.

[1ozzy]

Is this really what AB has become, Cindy and Abbey have so much to contribute 😪

[DDIL]

//She whines about how her legs don't work properly. She's fallen about 3 times since she's moved in.//

well you are all heart!!

do whatever makes you happy.

[Old_Geezer]

Due to lack of paragraphs I started skimming after a while.

 

It seems she is in a bad place and in need of support. A little sympathy would help. Meanwhile, you are under no compulsion to house her, you do have your own life, but is it really necessary to kick her while she is down ?  After all you did let her move in; you even helped.

 

You make your own decision, but ideally you and your family could help solve the situation best by convincing her (with evidence/examples) that she is being too optimistic in her asking price for the trailer; and help her cope with the health issues.  If these can be sorted, it can only be a short while before you all find her a place of her own that she can afford.

[jackthehat]

Yes.....No.....Maybe.....

I think my work here is done.

[smurfchops]

Cindy and Abbey should meet up for a bottomless brunch and both wear leopard print

[DDIL]

Just a thought in an earlier post you said you moved in together.

Is her name on the tenancy agreement?