Can I just remind people about the duties of Pension Scheme Trustees.
It is their duty to make sure that the wishes of a Pension Scheme member is carried after his/her death. The person who was the next of kin at the time of the vesting, ie the person nominated to receive any death benefit when the Member dies, may not be around when that death occurs. So, any nomination has to be discretionary.
So in the case of Gordan's dad, the Trustees still have to hunt around for the appropriate person, or persons that may be ready to receive any benefit.
So....to repeat myself Gordan....you may be in for a long wait.