I was around 19, he was a drummer in a band at the pub we went to , a WM Club, he took me home afterwards a few times, he was good looking with the long hair of the time, always immaculately dressed, something caught my eye on FB, his name , I asked it was the one who played in the band, yes it was , he’d died 1999, I know it was forever ago but I still got that sense of loss remembering him
//something caught my eye on FB, his name// exactly the same happened to me with a former boyfriend from 30 years previously. He hadn't died and I'm married to him now. But I get what you mean. The pang I had when I saw his name was very strong. I am glad I plucked up the courage to message him.
I was devasted when an old acquaintance stopped me and said ' terrible news about R????? wasn't it' turned out my ex-husband had been killed in a cycling accident. So very sad, still a relatively young man.
Must admit I was shocked when I was told about the first one...then when the second happened doubly shocked.....and a bit worried.
I'm surprised any boy asked me out after that.
He is fond of telling people that it only took me 5 days to nearly kill him. (He had a stroke on our honeymoon). And as to that latter comment. Shut it. You know who you are ;)
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