i thought if there was a 6 months period clean of no assets before going into a home then past finances would not be considered. this is what happened with my elderly aunt. her assets were shared out among family which wasnt alot anyway. she didnt own property though so im not sure about that side of things, there must be a way round it. cant she put it in your name or someone else's then maybe after 6 months or so she can then consider a nursing home. you are allowed to have some savings if you claim for benefits for care in a home, i think it used to be 8000 pounds but check this out or maybe someone else on here can tell you, anything over or above had to be used for care fees, this happened with my uncle.