stuck in the middle

[postage]

sometimes i feal i am stuck in the midldle - sister had a baby i love the baby with all my heart she's he best thing on this planet. i dont like sis's husbend he 's strange .. Very religious.nothing wrong with that but he's backward. and i can't communitcate with him well.
my sis used to be beautifull and trendy shes now looks old and haggered and thats what he has done to her am woried he will do the same to the baby
make her backward

am i silly

[gerrywoods39]

I don't think there is anything you need to worry about. May be your sister is happy with that kind of lifestyle. However, you did not explain why that man is backward to you. I don't think those who wear trendy clothes, attend parties and date with men (despite being married) are not modern at all. If you do all that and never pay attention to your family, children and husband definitely you should be called selfish not modern.

I would appreciate that couple because both are paying full attention to each other. This is why I suppose they are leading a very peaceful life. Apparent beauty has to go away sooner or later.

[Old_Geezer]

As a general rule one ought not interfer with another's life style choice.

But you are entitled to views. And for sure different parents have a different level of ablility in stimulating their children to make the most of their abilities.

Maybe auntie postage can help out there just by visiting and playing with junior ?

[didoatwork]

I'm sure your sister's baby will grow up to be a fine person. You will be able to help with that too.

[ummmm]

You can't make people 'backward'

[joko]

yes you are silly.

what a ridiculous notion

and as for being backward, you may want to look at yourself...you dont come across as particularly intelligent and actually seem somewhat dim