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i need HELP!
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me and mom have lived together pretty much my entire life ..im still fairly young..so me and her are not getting along she dragged me out to some dumb town to live with her bf then broke up with him..and now were living there because we really have no other options. my brother lives with my dad and my dads gf and daughter and im much happier when im at there house but i feel if i was to move out of my moms into my dads i would be abandoning my mom and she would be all alone, i dont want to but , im not happy there
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sorry to hear of your problems, but quite a few questions are a bit evasive, what age bracket are you in? do you go to school where you are? did you have to move because of your moms work?
why not try talking to your brother and maybe life in his household isnt all its cracked up to be (grass is always greener etc?)
Finally i think you need to find out if your mom is planning on living where you are full time, in which case you have to either start trying to get to know people your age in the area, or let her know that your not happy, and see if there is any chance you can go back to where you were before (if that was better?) Cant be easy for your mom either if she and her b/f have split up, maybe she is unaware of how unhappy you really are? Could you suggest staying with your brother and dad just to see how much better you might 'think' it is, sometimes life is not always what it seems?
i know it hasnt been great advice and i really feel for you, especially at this time of year when everything is MEANT to be happy happy happy, but if its any consolation....... it rarely is!! Glad when its all over?? me too xxx
Take care
why not try talking to your brother and maybe life in his household isnt all its cracked up to be (grass is always greener etc?)
Finally i think you need to find out if your mom is planning on living where you are full time, in which case you have to either start trying to get to know people your age in the area, or let her know that your not happy, and see if there is any chance you can go back to where you were before (if that was better?) Cant be easy for your mom either if she and her b/f have split up, maybe she is unaware of how unhappy you really are? Could you suggest staying with your brother and dad just to see how much better you might 'think' it is, sometimes life is not always what it seems?
i know it hasnt been great advice and i really feel for you, especially at this time of year when everything is MEANT to be happy happy happy, but if its any consolation....... it rarely is!! Glad when its all over?? me too xxx
Take care
my daughter came to live with me when she was eleven and she suffered the same torment. you are young and very impressionable the next few years are the most important years you have left and any emotional turmoil will affect your attitude in future relationships. your mother is an adult and i presume pretty level headed she wants what is best for you , go and spend a few years with your dad living in a family it'll do you good . you dont have to abandon your mam she's still your mam and she'll still be your mate in 50 years time.
speak to your dad , he'll sort it
speak to your dad , he'll sort it
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