One of the greatest developmental gifts I was ever given as a child and the greatest gift I gave both my children when they turned three was a Brio wooden train set. I call those generational toys, in that they can be passed along from generation to generation. They�re a perfect size for small hands, they encourage creativity and forward-thinking, and they are safe for small hands and mouths.
I encourage you to only buy the original products as the replicas are made to a lesser quality. In time they can split and splinter and they do not have the same safety should they be placed in a child�s mouth.
Brio train sets aren�t just limited to trains. There are entire communities and family members can buy add-on pieces as the child grows. The only limitation to the product is the child�s imagination. Some people write on the bottom of the sets, notes and notable dates to celebrate when the add-on gifts were given.
I can�t think of a lovelier gift for a three year old.
http://www.adventuretoys.co.uk/briochoice.asp? subcat=Train+Sets
I wish you well
Fr Bill