should i feel bad?

[jrobinson7]

should i feel bad that i am not in my fourth sister's wedding? she and i don't always get along and i feel that i would be better off as a guest not part of the party.

[gossipgirl]

no you shouldnt feel bad, i dont always get on with my sister and i said to her about her wedding that i would feel klike a hypocrite if i took a place on her wedding party i.e bridesmaid when her true friends would like the position, afterall they like her more than i do lol. The main thing is you will be there

[chinadog]

I did'nt go to 2 of my sisters weddings as we've never got on. I did'nt even go in the night. Bloods not always thicker than water,Im closer to my longtime friends both from my childhood. Dont feel guilty jr.

[puddicat]

dont be guilty, they arent bothered why should you

[sqad617]

Didn't go to 2 out of my 4 son's weddings.

If they marry plonkers, it is their problem

Jr....don't go and don't give it another thought.

[terambulan]

go, to wish the couple well......it'll save a lifetimes fraught.

[jrobinson7]

thanks all.... i feel better about my plan ... i got alot of crap from my family about not wanting to be in it

[bednobs]

i dont think you should feel bad unless you want to. Could someone tell me, what is the difference between being "in" a wedding, and attending a wedding?