absent parents rights

[aprile]

as the absent parent to my 6yr old son, does his father who has custody of him have the right to not let me know were he is living please

[bobjugs12]

Yes depending on whether you are judged as either a danger or risk to the child or parent.

[ojread2]

It is quite unusual for the resident parent to have any legal right to withhold an address; even known abusers get contact with their children in a supervisory way

what happened for you to lose contact to the point where you no longer know where your son lives? Do you have a solicitor?

[aprile]

thankyou for the answer and i had my boy and my ex and i seperated, he was physically abuse to me but he called social on me, my son got taken into care, and we both had supervised visits, then it went to court several times and the judge gave my ex custody of our son. i still had to have supervised contact, and the last year it has been supervised contact for 6 times in one year under a supervision order from the court, it has now ended and surprisingly my ex has moved and at the last review meeting he said he did not want me to have his address or contact number. my son was taken off me for the physical abuse of him being over weight even tho my 2 other children are spot on in weight, also for the violence he witnessed from between his dad and i even tho i was the one getting hit etc and also because he didnt always go to nursery which is not legally compulsory , because they thought i was keeping my son of school so that his dad could not have contact, which is also untrue, therefore i seem to have less rights then what you mentioned i.e abusers, thankyou

[chelle7272]

yes he does for the reasons you've given. Do you have legal advice or any support services as you have mentioned domestic violence? DA services would be able to advise you.

[aprile]

the reasons i have given are all false as i did not do anything wrong, it was the fater who did wrong the one who has my son now.

[chelle7272]

Yes but the authorities who have taken your child obviously have their reasons to do so, whether this is based on truth or not. that is why I asked if you had gotten in touch with domestic abuse support services, or sought legal advice.

I have been in abusive relationships myself, and I am not saying i disbelieve you, but if you want to fight this you have to get some help with that.

[bobjugs12]

So let me get this right. In a family court they took unsubstatiated claims of the Father over the Mothers, and without any evidence gave the Father full custody and restricted the Mother to 6 supervised visits a year.
Sorry love, this doesn't add up. There is no way any Family Court would carry out the course of action you've described. You're either not telling the whole truth or this is a wind-up

[aprile]

my ex is a charmer, he even had a fit in court and the judge even saw me flinch as he walked past me , but it still went his way because he moved back to his ex wife and they seemed to think this wud be a secure place for my boy, but rite after the court case and after they gave his ex riites over my son they split then back together and now the supervision order is finished they have now split for good hence why he has moved and i dont no wer mt son is living, even tho my ex said he wants our son to see me once a month now he has changed his mind and wants it to be 6 times a year and he wants to supervise the contact

[aprile]

what and who is in denial please

[aprile]

to all of u i aint a time waster or telling lies or winding u up i am in tears now cos all i want to no is do i have a right to no wer my son is living, thankyou

[bobjugs12]

Sweetheart. I'm the most charming bloke in the world. My ex wife was a violent, serial cheat. I had a house and a full-time job. She had a part-time job in a bakery. My kids all said that they wanted to live with me.

Guess what. I went to several different solicitors and Family Law organisations and they all said the same thing. The only way I would ever get custody of my kids is if my ex wife was proven to be an unfit mother. Didn't matter which Judge I had or who my legal team were. That would be the only outcome. Fact

So either you're not being honest with yourself, or with us.

[chelle7272]

Aprile we have answered you. If you are being truthful seek professional advice as advised.

[aprile]

to vibraspere read the messages before and you will get your answer
as to why my son was taken away, because his dad is a liar

[bobjugs12]

Him lying ain't gonna get your kids removed

[stonekicker]

love the new avatar, bobjugs...strangely attractive! x