Annoying me cause he'll say he's on my side when we talk to his ex, the childs mum, but seems to blot it out when we get home and I mention anything. Its Just household stuff, no big worries. I may be over-reacting! In cold hard print I think I am....
His child is his own flesh and blood and you are not. The bond will never weaken between him and her. I had 3 step daughters and many years ago there were many problems. However, in time things are all right when they become adults. This may sound a bit simplistic, but I can say from experience that having step children is a minefield at times.
Much as I love my husband, I get very defensive if he critisises my daughter (his step daughter) in any way. He very rarely does it and when he does, deep down I know he's right. But it's that protective instinct - I'll defend her no matter what.