Divorce

[mfdinham]

Do i have to leave my house if my wife no longer loves me.

[woofgang]

that's the saddest post I have ever seen. You need to get some advice, possibly some counselling. There are loads of divorce advice websites, but right now have you got anyone to talk to?

[B00]

I agree with Woofgang, your message brought a tear to my eye. Please please seek help both legal and otherwise before you do anything.

Hope everything works out for you- good luck :-)

[nfn]

don't leave unless that's what you really want to do. Good Luck

[Adi's mom]

please first address the issue...why, what hapened..that she fell out of love. Please address the real issue, tackle it, together...give yourself and her time. Do not force, will make things worse. patience, perseverence, understanding...

if still doesn't work out...both of you need to talk and decide on a future course of action. But please make it cordial...

[rampart]

mfdinham, human relationships are the toughest things in the world. Do give the idea of leaving great thought and prayer. Once you leave, it's very hard to come back, I would think. Love has many dimensions.

Talk to somebody about this. Sometimes it is easier to talk to a someone who does not know you. Perhaps talk to a priest at a church you do not attend. They are great listeners and confidential.

Best of luck.

[georgit79]

how's it going? Would be good to hear from you again. I know those who've posted above would like to hear your news.

[smudge]

It is always so sad hearing about the break up of a realtionship or marrieage & I really do feel for you mfdinham.

If your problems are in the very early stages & you don't wish to confide in any of your family or friends yet, perhaps you could contact relate for initial advice.

I wish you good luck for the future. 

[smudge]

* relationship & marriage - so sorry about that.

[jdsees]

Do NOT leave your home!  I hope you work things out for both of you, but my opinion is based on similar circumstances.  My husband stopped loving me, we lived in a house I paid off before we married.  I moved out because I was doing as he asked and hoped it would help us work things out.  Now we are divorced and HE GOT THE WHOLE HOUSE!  If I had to do it again I would not move out under any circumstances.  If her mind has changed then let her move out!