teen sex

[shorty1392]

My boyfriend is 14, and im 13. we have been together for only 2 weeks. And he's already talking about having sex. They only things we have done together is kiss, finger me and give him hand jobs. Im not sure i wanna have sex yet. How am i spoused to tell him?

[B00]

Simple- tell him no, you're far too young for a start. It's illegal.

[Dreaming]

You sure this is written by a 13 year old!

[B00]

Dunno Dreaming, but as a mum I'm horrified that a 13 year has done even half of the above things, let alone contemplating full blown sex!!!!

[Dreaming]

I agree with you Boo. I am a parent too, and have a 13 year old daughter. All she thinks about is guitars. But its scary that some 13 year old actually do these things. But still doubt the above question was genuine.

[Drusilla]

The sentences are short and well constructed. The punctuation is good and the spelling mistakes are too obvious. This is not the work of a thirteen year old girl. What say you, Watson?

[Dreaming]

Well Sherlock, me thinks its someone who has nothing better to do.

[maximo]

I agree with all the above. If it's a joke : get a life.

If you are genuine : please excuse us, and keep posting.

[Gnisy]

If shorty here is legit and we don't believe her, she might just go and do it!

anyhoo... 13 is too young. And I don't mean it as a "you're not capable of doing it." You are capable, plenty. But think about it. Are you prepared to be a parent yourself? If not, just enjoy the pleasures of being young, single, free of responsibility and unattached. Safe sex or not, it is not the only thing worth living for.

Sex can wait. Growing up only happens once.

[lynneuk74]

You'd be amazed what kids that age do!!! Found my sisters old diary when clearing out her room at my parent's. Couldn't resist taking a peek!!!! It was from when she was around 13 and she spoke about her and her then boyfriend.

I was shocked that they'd fondled each other - guess I'd imagined they were far too young to know of such things!!! That was over 10 years ago so I have no doubts that things have progressed to the stage where the above question could well be genuine (the content if not the wording, anyway).

Makes me realise how innocent I was - didn't kiss a guy until I was 17!!!!

[mimififi]

Just Don't. You can never wind back the clock. You can never have your first time again.

IF he says "if you loved me, you would...." you can reply"if you loved me, you wouldn't ask...."

However, I'm sure that if a 13 year old was thinking of doing it at all, she would be out there doing it, and not on AB posting questions. I'd doubt they'd call it 'teen sex' either. SOUnds like a title to grab attention to me.

She would also have been responding to people's posts if she really was agonising over it.

Sorry Shorty if I'm wrong.

hey Ly, you read your sister's diary?.....Even ten years later, it's still a betrayal in my book.