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forceing my ex to see kids
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Whyever would you want to? Even if you succeeded in forcing him, and I don't quite see how you could, your girls would suffer for it as an enforced parental relationship would be really damaging. Leave the prat alone to his sad devices and enjoy rearing your daughters. As they grow up they'll realise what a weasel he is and that they are best shut of him.
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Are the girls twins or did he not want his name on the birth cert even when you were together? How old are the girls, do they miss him?
You want him to see the girls, so whatever happened between you you must think he is not completely unsuitable. Maybe you can keep the door open for him by sending him occasional news and photos so that when he is feeling less bitter/ more mature/whatever, he can think again.
Bitterness does no-one any good so if you can try to understand things from his point of view you will be better able to come to terms with his attitude and find some way of explaining it to the girls. Maybe �he was too young to be a Daddy�, or �he didn�t have his own Daddy when he was little so he didn�t know how� or �he was cross with me� or whatever you think. Certainly �he doesn�t know what he�s missing, I�m so lucky to have you�. You mustn�t let them think for one minute that its their fault.
Hope it all works out in the end.
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