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my stepson is eigthteen now we've been living together for 12yrs but i have never been able to get on i have 4 other children with my stepsons mum,now we are on the verge of seperation because of my relationship with my stepson. how can i turn things around as i do not want us to seperate.
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you dont say what the problems are, but surely after 12 years ,4 children and the fact he was only 6 when you moved in is enough to keep your family together.
have you tried relate or some other kind of councelling?
you dont say what the problems are, but surely after 12 years ,4 children and the fact he was only 6 when you moved in is enough to keep your family together.
have you tried relate or some other kind of councelling?
In the early days of your relationship with your young stepson, it was your responsibility as the adult to get on with him. You should have done everything within your power ...and more ...to ensure that you built a strong and respectful relationship together. That being said, this is an impossible question to answer in the here and now, as you do not say what is happening in your life together. My only thought would be for you and your stepson to go somewhere together for a weekend, on your own ..maybe camping and just walk and talk, about everything or nothing. This would be a starting point and maybe progress could be made if you both try to be honest and not just 'right.'