Fact is RR, men dont think on the emotional level us ladies do honey bunch, they dont know what they are doing half the time, and I dont think he realises he is doing anything wrong afterall you arent a couple are you? I know you were probably hoping to be with him, and Im so sorry this has hurt you, but just try and carry on as normal with him, I know it will be so difficult but you will be ok, it could be he has cottoned on to how you feel about him and he may have been playing up to that, men are strange darling, but be yourself and be confident.... you are worth 10 if him, but try not to let it spoil the friendship you have - hugs RQ xx