help me please !!!!!!

[tinkerbell99]

my 7yr old is boy mad she has been since she was still in nappies her favorite advert is the diet coke ad cos of the man in it and shes even eying up boys her age by looking at them up and down and smiling at them she has a little boyfriend but i thought they just called each other boyf and girlf and thats but i was wrong she was clinging to him giving him lots of kisses and cuddles at first it was cute but now its gone too far ive tried to discourage her but it just goes over her head and these days people will get the wrong idea do you think shel grow out of it as she gets older or watch her closely iv even joked about getting her a Chasity belt when she hits pubeity thats how bad it is good advice please

[china38]

I cant even read that, let alone try to help. First part comes to mind though "my 7 year old boy is mad she".... boy who is she? but i cant read that, its just too hard

[tinkerbell99]

my 7yr old girl is obsessed with boys ive tried to discourage her but it goes over her head

[petal54]

Ive only got a son,who didn't show any interest that young,but it's probably as well not to make too much of it at her age,if in a few years she's still 'boy'mad,then have a sensible chat with her,as she seems to know,already,how to pull your strings.Girls seem pretty deft at that.I'm sure that she's a bright child &'ll grow up in to a 'normal',sensible teenager(whatever normal is)

[sara3]

whilst it may qualify for the world's longest sentence, you can understand it.

I think you need to have a word with the health visitor or nurse at your doctor's surgery.

[sleepyj]

if she is like that at 7 wonder what she will be like at 14 ..good luck .

[tinkerbell99]

im hoping shel grow out of it by then and have no interest in boys until she is well past the legal age to do rudey things lol she doesnt know about things like that yet and she thinks babies come from lots of kisses so she doesnt kiss her little boyf as often as she used to thank god hes 7 too and he calls her his honey bunny which is cute im really hoping shell calm down before she gets in her teens she probs will

[zzxxee]

is your daughter an only child or does she have an older sister if she does have an older sister sometimes they copy their behavior. my cousins 9 year old started behaving like your daughter because her 17 year old sister had a boyfriend and she always looked up to her the behavior soon passed dont worry

[tinkerbell99]

shes an only child at the mo and she has a little bro or sis on the way which is due in april but i have a 17 yr old sister and some of her friends have teenage sisters so maybe your right she might be getting it from them

[zzxxee]

could well be she may act like this because it gets a reaction from you deep down she maybe also a little jelous of new baby on the way and this is just her way of getting your attention x

[Nkakamasembe]

If its the only bad habit that makes you pay attention to her it will go on .find something good she is doing and go over the moon acknowlodging it.
Unless she is imitating YOU!!!

[Nkakamasembe]

Surprise surprise ZZxxee I am outa here!!!

[zzxxee]

dont get you nkakmasie????????????

[brenda]

Try to ignore the whole thing, it is a phase and will pass.
You could try distracting her when she is a little flirtatious.
Children love to get a reaction fron their parents ,so ignore and try to avoid situations where she can be a mini temptress.
Good luck

[tamirra]

My 10 month old grandaughter is always eyeing up the men lol its nothing to worry about,just part of growing up, if shes still doing it when she 17 then worry lol.

[snagged]

Advice? Use the full stop key.

[monkeywiener]

send it back and get a full refund. remember to bargain with them though swo they take the stretch markes too!

[tinkerbell99]

thank you everyone who gave serious answers ill ignore it instead of telling her its inappropriate then maybe shel stop after a while

and send IT back IT is a girl monkeywiener and who said ive got stretch marks go back to bed and stop being a dik ok

[monkeywiener]

ok night night x

[lil75]

You have told her that babies come from lots of kisses and cuddles, maybe she wants one of her own, thats why shes doing that...I can remember one christmas when I was about 7 and I prayed to god that I would wake up with a real baby sitting on the end of my bed lol...maybe she just loves babies x

[tinkerbell99]

i didnt tell her where babies come from she just assumed and i just let her think that till shes old enough to know where there really from lol